The other woman is otherwise known as the home-wrecker, the hoe, the slut, the tramp, the skeeza, etc. You know her. She's the malicious bitch, the housewife, girlfriend, and occasional regular you would love to beat senseless after catching her with your man. We've seen umpteen movies concerning her and read countless books and articles about her (and how to keep her out of our lives). Am I right? I mean? Why would you respect a bitch that comes in-between a union to be that other woman? She's the side-secret he (or she) runs to when you ain't actin' right. The one who offers what you can't! And we focus on that bitch because it's her fault, right? She's the intruder. She's the extra.

Well bitch, focus on the fact that it's your man who brought her in... Whether he sought her or she found him. He's the one who lies, cheats, steals, deceives, and pushes you to the side with his eccentric stories of, "I'm working late..." "I'm hangin' with my boys..." "It was the wrong number..." You run around blamin' the "other" woman, when she's not the only one at fault; it's all parties involved. Innocent women who are cheated on out-the-blue are an exception to this, but you bitches that forgive and forget? You blame the other woman and take the muthafucka, who couldn't keep his shit in his pants until he got home, back without a single Angela Bassett - Waiting to Exhale spring cleanin'.

Bitch please this is reality. To the women who let men run them over like road kill you bitches are silly! In no way is the other woman the malicious bitch that we're so quick to call her if you can't stand up and demand the respect (we as) men should harbor for you, no matter what (including leaving his bitch ass). We're in a time when women bring home the bread just as much as the men do. Women have marched and fought for years to make that happen. So why are you going to lower your standards to be involved in something that will not keep you moving forward and up in life? You have to respect yourself first, if you want to be respected by others (especially men).

You'd better wake the hell up and realize something. Every woman thinks the next woman is the "other woman", and that they are "the woman." What you may not know is that the so-called "other" woman could be HIS woman and then what? That would make YOU the "other" woman. So whom do we blame then? Do we blame the housewife type woman who was there first or the "other" woman who came after? Trust... The other woman may very well be just as unknowing of you and his double, triple, quadruple life.

I know a woman who IS the other woman, and she's okay with her title because her man supposedly "isn't happy with his wife." The wife knows about her. Now, what benefit is either woman gettin' from a man who is not only unemployed, but a lyin', deceitful, dope-head with 4 or 5 kids and 3 different baby-mommas? And if you're a woman who knows about the other woman, what the hell are you doing sittin' on your ass lettin' him play you both like funky pianos. If you feel like he's doin' dirt, or know he is, leave him. You're better than that and there are far more important things to worry about.

So, which woman are you... the woman or the other woman? Are you the type of bitch that should be respected or the type of bitch who has settled for his bullshit? Life is too short to not be a bitch respected.

And if you're the woman and has a man who is runnin' around town doin' his thing with every other woman? Bitch please... you're the other woman.